An all inclusive educational Halloween bash with the goal of providing those interested in BDSM with the tools tactics and technique to play safely


all angels and demons, sinners, and fallen saints….you are being called to the Underworld….

Welcome to the Underworld

October 26th-27th

Norcal exotic erotic, also known as the underworld, we are calling all angels, demons, and everyone in between. Let loose and experience Halloween in a whole new way. with a live dj playing danceable hits, and local band Falkonner, even the angels are likely to get a little naughty at the hottest Halloween bash in the north bay

Guests are encouraged to wear their finest costumes for a chance to win prize gift basket valued at over $1,000!

wear your best costume

for a chance to win over $1,000 in prizes

Why is it so expensive?

Norcal Exotic Erotic, is an educational Halloween bash, providing sex-positive workshops, unique vendor mall, and erotic art gallery by day, and seductive dance party by night….and is also a fundraiser

5% goes to north bay fire recovery

now booking

Trina Merry is currently booking time in sonoma county during her 25-29 stay click on photo to contact for more info

Host Venue The Flamingo Resort Spa

Guests in need of accommodations book here to assure you remain with your group Norcal Exotic Erotic


The Venue


The Flamingo Resort

The Flamingo Resort

Nestled in the foothills of Santa Rosa, the Flamingo Conference Resort and Spa is perfect for business and leisure. At the Flamingo you will find 13,000 square feet of conference and event spaces, on-site restaurant, lounge, manicured gardens, rooms / suites, multiple swimming pools, spa and a fully-equipped fitness center. We have everything you need for the ultimate resort experience. When you are ready to explore wine country, the gourmet foods and wines of Sonoma and Napa are just down the road.

Terrace grill and Poolside Patio

Casually Elegant Sonoma Dining

Enjoy the fabulous brunch and dining specials or enjoy a meal à la carte in the Flamingo Poolside Restaurant.
  • Poolside Patio Seating Outdoors (not available during winter)

  • Beautiful view of our 25-meter heated pool and manicured gardens

  • Sumptuous Sunday Champagne Buffet Brunch

  • Ongoing Specials

  • Dr. McDougall featured Vegetarian & Vegan Options


6:30am – 9:00pm from Monday to Sunday

Restaurant Menus

Conference Center

Convention and meeting planners nationwide hold the Flamingo’s conference facilities and services in high regard. An expansive and attractive meeting space with 13 function rooms (13,000 sq. ft.) including a Grand Ballroom, two boardrooms and an outside poolside patio, praised for its versatility as a conference location. The ballroom is ideal for elegant memorable events. Poolside receptions add a unique touch to group functions.

We offer a full range of meeting rooms for planning and breakout sessions, banquets, receptions and of course, complete hotel accommodations. If you wish we can create a group meal package to be served in a private suite, on the patio or in one of our banquet rooms. We can even create an outdoor barbecue, cooked and served poolside by our professional banquet staff.



unique vendor market

Welcome to our unique vendor mall

Where you can learn from the pro’s how to utilize those fancy gadgets you’ve been dying to try! Go home with your new tool + get the skills to use it in one of our sex positive workshops!


Breathe, toys and more

Real toys for real players. Real toys to love/hate. Real toys that beg to be used often. No matter what kind of play, it all begins when you Breathe.

house of wolfram

House of Wolfram

House Of Wolfram was founded in the beautiful pacific northwest city of Portland OR by a single leather smith with the goal to contribute to the advancement of the BDSM lifestyle by making the finest handmade leather bondage gear in existence.


justin sayne leather

Justin Sayne's dedication to quality and craftsmanship sent him searching all over the globe to find the very best hides for his work—and in a farm in Southern Africa, where alligator and crocodile hides were produced with outstanding quality, he found his gold mine. His passion is the inspiration for new designs and creations that change from season to season and hand-crafted piece is a unique work of art.


current pleasures

We focus particularly on the e-stim fetish, enabling Hands-Free Orgasms, predicament play, and more. We carry all kinds of accessories and feature a wide variety of shapes and sizes of electrode pads, insertables, electrical wires and adapters for TENS/EMS units and other power boxes. We have just the hookup for any toy to work with any box. We also have many unique, exclusive and proprietary items designed specifically for Safe, Sane and Consensual electrosex that you will find nowhere else in the world!


cute little fuckers

They are gender inclusive sex toys, shaped like adorable monsters. Each toy is made of high quality silicone, packs a strong and variable vibration, and is a character in themselves with their own name and pronoun and life in a webcomic series. Cute Little Fuckers is the creation of the disabled queer activist Step Tranovich (they/them). After a successful first production round, they launched the project on Kickstarter in September and reached their first funding goal in under 12 hours. The Cute Little Fuckers Kickstarter campaign is still raising funds for more characters until October 31st!

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Cute little fucker

Cute little fuckers is a queer webcomic and a series of cute collectible sex toy monsters made for ALL identities. Together our mission is to make sex more creative, inclusive, and genuinely fun!

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black Cake clothing

The glamour of Hollywood.The rebellious spirit of rock ‘n’ roll.The vivaciousness of Marilyn Monroe.

Harnessing these playful ideals, designer Erika Mark of Hollywood, California created the sexy clothing line Black Cake.

Proudly American made, Black Cake is committed to manufacturing in the United States.

Black Cake caters to a women's femininity, confidence and individuality.


Rock Candy Toys

Rock Candy Toys® introduces a collection of irresistible pleasure products that celebrate the excitement of the time-honored candy shop experience, just for adults! With an array of vibrant designs inspired by classic sugary treats, each pleasure product inspires fun and playful excitement in the bedroom. Each Rock Candy confection features a thoughtfully-crafted ‘sweet spot’ to tease and please the senses. From titillating textures to fun, flirty names, this delectable lineup blends sugar, spice, naughty and nice!


chain me too

Terry BrownI love designing beautiful toys and body chains for consenting intimate play and sex positive fun. Each item is hand made at time of order. I'm forever exploring new designs and strive to deliver high quality pieces. Chain is very unique medium and can sometimes be challenging to work with. But always rewarding. It gives me great pride to design unique and beautiful pieces for people to enjoy.
I use high quality materials so my items look and feel great. Such as stainless steel, chrome and gun metal electroplated iron. Chain links, soldering and O rings are used instead of jump rings for connecting the chain. I want my pieces to last.
It is just me running the show, designing, creating, implementing... Almost all pieces are 100% custom made at time of order. The biggest challenge is sizing. A lot of pieces are not adjustable so each piece has to be custom sized or a general size. Though I do my best so that each piece fits nicely. Please bear in mind I work hard to get each and every order out the door quickly and with quality.
I do get a lot of new ideas from my customers. Suggestions are always welcome! I also really enjoy working with customers on custom orders, each is a new piece of art come to life.
Thank you for reading, supporting and understand the time and hard work that goes into each and every piece here at ChainMeToo.
I use recycled packaging when ever possible as to not add to the plastic being dumped into the oceans.

scarlett layer

Inspiring Women to love every curve they were blessed with! Ladies we are beautiful! Sexy & Confidence is a mindset! Orders: DM or Call 1-877-314-5782

House of Harlot

House of Harlot is a company of designers and skilled artisans who manufacture fabulous garments, specialising in Latex rubber. The label was begun in 1991, by Robin and Michelle Archer. For the past twenty years, Robin Archer has been designing and making fetish fashions in rubber, leather and other materials.

In 1997, House of Harlot began in earnest as a wholesale latex garment manufacturer, selling to stores from L.A to New York, London to Dusseldorf and Tokyo to Sydney, as well as continuing to produce its world reknowned custom-made individual costumes. These days, our output is more varied than ever, with an increasingly diverse customer base and demands. We continue to supply the world fetish scene with outstanding rubber garments, as well as working with high-fashion brands like Marc Jacobs, Louis Vuitton, Oscar de la Renta and Christian Dior on special pieces for catwalk shows in Paris, London and New York. We also regularly supply celebrities in music and media, and anyone with a taste for the unusual and exceptional. Recently we have supplied several films with costume as well, including The Zero Theorem by Terry Gilliam, Jupiter Ascending by the Wachowskis and My Mistress by Stephen Lance and starring Emmanuelle Beart.In 2016 Robin Archer resigned as Director of the company and Iris Trika is now in command of House of Harlot.


Yes Is Sexy

is a small (very small) company in Northern CA with no employees, no brick and mortar location, and no money. We do, however, have big ass dreams and plans that involve creating a queer and kink friendly, family education-based space that promotes consent culture and encourages sexual authenticity. We love all the flavors of life and want to share them with you.


dr clockwork’s

For Excellence in Design, Satisfaction in Customer Care and a Reasonable Price, truly you cannot do better than DOCTOR CLOCKWORK’S HOME FOR ELECTRICAL AND MEDICAL ODDITIES!

The Home for Electrical and Medical Oddities is located in the verdant fields of New Jersey. Doctor Clockwork’s Storehouse of Pleasure Devices has been Specially Designed to house many Hundreds of Quality Devices to gratify your Every Whim.


herba buena


We believe cannabis to be a powerful agent for positive change. Our SHOP features award-winning HerbaBuena products, along with a highly curated, best-of-class selection from trusted brands, offering full spectrum therapeutic benefit and unrivaled purity to support greater health, harmony and happiness in daily life.


Off kilter kilts


Your Southern California source for modern kilts. We carry StumpTown Kilts, Verillas Kilts, Sport Kilt, Damn Near Kilt ‘Em, and Got Kilt. Visit us in the store or online. Join us for our Kilts and Drinks nights!


ck underground

My store focuses on leatherwork, which is my main hobby, and I specialize in unique leather fashion, restraints, one-of-a-kind ideas.I am a whip enthusiast and currently make custom nylon whips of many lengths, colors, and types. Don't be limited with my current listings, contact me and I'll make your preferred design.
All of my hand-crafted soaps have one thing in common: food. I'm a baker-ette as a hobby since 2008 and professional cake decorator, however, I can't seem to ship a wedding cake so I do the next best thing. Since I spent so much time making cakes and baking items look like anything but food, my soaps are themed the opposite in that all have an ingredient of food, smell like food, or are designed to look like food.

But that's not all! I am a jack-of-all-trades creator and am always learning how to work with new mediums and textiles. Kevlar is one of my favorites and I do have some fire play/performance items for sale as well as plans for more.e


Audrey Angel Art

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Bedroom Products

Bedroom Products

Featured vendor

Bedroom Products presents a cohesive line of classic sexual wellness staples geared towards the modern man. Our collection of pleasure products, and overall mission is focused on enhancing your nightstand, relationship, and sexual health.



the frugal domme


visit santa rosa

Just 55 miles north of San Francisco, in the urban heart of wine country, you'll find Santa Rosa: a city with a cool vibe and vibrant culture ready and waiting to be explored.

Santa Rosa is the happening hub for all there is to see, do, eat, drink, hike, bike and explore in Sonoma County.

Where Wine Country Meets Beer City: friends find the best of both worlds in Santa Rosa

sensi magazine

Sensi Magazine is a new type of cannabis lifestyle magazine with a fresh approach and two specific goals: to "chronicle the new normal" and "shift the culture."

black cake clothing

The glamour of Hollywood.The rebellious spirit of rock ‘n’ roll.The vivaciousness of Marilyn Monroe.

Harnessing these playful ideals, designer Erika Mark of Hollywood, California created the sexy clothing line Black Cake.

Proudly American made, Black Cake is committed to manufacturing in the United States.

Black Cake caters to a women's femininity, confidence and individuality.


KinkFest is an annual, 3-day event celebrating sexual diversity, bdsm, fetish and leather communities. There are numerous educational classes, evening play parties, and a large vendor mall filled with products and services from local and national leather, fetish and kink businesses

face 2 face

Our mission is ending HIV in Sonoma County while supporting the health and well-being of people living with HIV/AIDS.

Since our beginning in 1983, Face to Face has addressed the ever-changing challenges presented by the HIV epidemic in Sonoma County.

To this end, we offer HIV prevention education and services to Sonoma County and we empower clients living with HIV with supportive services including housing assistance, benefits counseling, information, referrals, and transportation. We strengthen our community through outreach, education and HIV policy advocacy on a local and national level.

st james infirmary

St. James Infirmary is a peer-based occupational health and safety clinic for sex workers of all genders.
It is our mission to meet the needs of people engaged in the sex trade through advocacy, direct services, and social justice.

libertarian party

The Libertarian Party (LP) is your representative in American politics. It is the only political organization which respects you as a unique and responsible individual. Our slogan is that we are “The Party of Principle”, because we stand firmly on our principles.Libertarians strongly oppose any government interference into their personal, family, and business decisions. Essentially, we believe all Americans should be free to live their lives and pursue their interests as they see fit as long as they do no harm to another. Founded in 1971, we run many hundred of candidates every election cycle. These candidates seek positions ranging from City Council to President of the United States. Each of these candidates helps to give liberty a voice.

the consent academy

The Consent Academy is an educational collective based out of Seattle, WA. Our mission is to teach consent in all of its complexity, aspects, and potential. With over 50 years of education experience collectively, our approach incorporates disciplines of psychology, sociology, public health, psychotherapy, and personal coaching to create a systemic view of how consent impacts everyone from the bedroom to the boardroom. We believe consent is part of everyday life and its practice builds stronger, safer, and more connected communities.


The NCSF is committed to creating a political, legal and social environment in the US that advances equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expressions.

The NCSF aims to advance the rights of, and advocate for consenting adults in the BDSM-Leather-Fetish, Swing, and Polyamory Communities.

We pursue our vision through direct services, education, advocacy, and outreach, in conjunction with our partners, to directly benefit these communities.

jealousy boutique

We aim to provide the best shopping experience. We specialize in Pleaser shoes free shipping nationwide

hooligan designs

Hooligan Lili is a Web professional who creates a variety of art in her free time. Her degree in Graphic Design and a list of favorite artists including Alberto Vargas, Alphonse Mucha, and Olivia De Berardinis influence Lili’s style.

Her work has been shown at Dirty Little Secrets Art Gallery, Gallery Sesso, Club Privata, Seattle Erotic Art Festival, and private clubs and coffee shops in the area. Her comic illustrations have been showcased in multiple San Diego Comic Con souvenir programs.

Lili has also donated work to a number of charity auctions including the Women of Wonder fund raising campaign, Twitter Art Exhibit, and the Portland Timbers Community Fund. A native to the Pacific Northwest, Lili currently resides in



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